What Is More Difficult??

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Hoorain

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wesy yeh sab assumption pe based hai ....................so all r hypothecations............nuthing is final...
obviously kisi k saath happen nhi ho rha to assumption hi kahain gaye..
but Aise Question pooche jayain to At least aik baar insan zarur soochta hay k waqe hi agar ALLAH na akrey aisa ho(q k hota hay ye aksar) to Insan k liye kia ziada mushkil hota hoga,,,
Aise sawal already assume kiye gaye hon aur in k baare may socha jaaye to insan kaafi had tak mukhtalif situations ko handle kar paata hay q k usko wo utni shocking n depressing nhi lagti jitni baghair sochey happen ho jayain tab laggaingi!!
 
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NXXXS

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obviously kisi k saath happen nhi ho rha to assumption hi kahain gaye..
but Aise Question pooche jayain to At least aik baar insan zarur soochta hay k waqe hi agar ALLAH na akrey aisa ho(q k hota hay ye aksar) to Insan k liye kia ziada mushkil hota hoga,,,
Aise sawal already assume kiye gaye hon aur in k baare may socha jaaye to insan kaafi had tak mukhtalif situations ko handle kar paata hay q k usko wo utni shocking n depressing nhi lagti jitni baghair sochey happen ho jayain tab laggaingi!!
if u dnt have strong belief in ur Allah then u do this otherwise no need of it.........jab woh koi aazmaish dalta hai8 tu us ko berdasht kerny ki quwat b daita hai8 .......................so pehly se tyari kerney wali baat munasib nhee... bus us se aazmaisg na dlaney ki dua kero ....tayari ko choro[DOUBLEPOST=1353924334][/DOUBLEPOST]
serf entertainment and rumor sub kuch nai hota Ally, /:) buhut se lives mei yeh circumistance chal rahe hote hain discuss kerne se mazeed ek appreciation melti hain ya way of relief, per khair mai ne aapko tag he kio kiya aapko samajh aker bhi baat samajh nai ayegi.
X_X sabah ji ap k sath tu aisa kcuh nhee ho raha na ??? jis k sath hoga khud hee pooch laiga kisi se kia kerna hai .....................:D
 

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well friends i would like to tell u ..
am goimg to marry a person whom i don't love ...
but now its depends on me that how i will face this situaition...
so mery khayal sa sub sa mushkil situation yehi hoti hai k ap aik aesay person k 7 whole life spend kro jis ko ap na hi pasand krty ho na hi love na hi koi aur feelings houn us person k liya...
but humesha achay ki umeed krni chaheya....
so mai b achay i umeed kr k apni life start krun ge :)
so pray for me friends
 

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if u dnt have strong belief in ur Allah then u do this otherwise no need of it.........jab woh koi aazmaish dalta hai8 tu us ko berdasht kerny ki quwat b daita hai8 .......................so pehly se tyari kerney wali baat munasib nhee... bus us se aazmaisg na dlaney ki dua kero ....tayari ko choro
oops
its true!
but these things are happening around, ppl get panic and they don't understand what to do if one of the above situations happens,and the whole relationship gets spoil!cauz most of us are living in a world of fascinations we are thinking everything perfect for us.the age in which we r we think everything will happen according to our wishes we will spend our life according to our desire, and when things happen against this thinking it gets disturbing.
if one of the two persons is compromising there are chances of getting success if both are immature and the situation is unexpected and unimagined for both, its is damaging!

so i think ,,at least In thinking ppl must be proactive rather than reactive.
n ALLAH na karey kisi k saath b aisa ho![DOUBLEPOST=1353924836][/DOUBLEPOST]
well friends i would like to tell u ..
am goimg to marry a person whom i don't love ...
but now its depends on me that how i will face this situaition...
so mery khayal sa sub sa mushkil situation yehi hoti hai k ap aik aesay person k 7 whole life spend kro jis ko ap na hi pasand krty ho na hi love na hi koi aur feelings houn us person k liya...
but humesha achay ki umeed krni chaheya....
so mai b achay i umeed kr k apni life start krun ge :)
so pray for me friends
ALLAH tala aapko bohat happy future aur bohat si khushiyan naseeb farmayain AAMEEN!
 

NXXXS

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oops
its true!
but these things are happening around, ppl get panic and they don't understand what to do if one of the above situations happens,and the whole relationship gets spoil!cauz most of us are living in a world of fascinations we are thinking everything perfect for us.the age in which we r we think everything will happen according to our wishes we will spend our life according to our desire, and when things happen against this thinking it gets disturbing.
if one of the two persons is compromising there are chances of getting success if both are immature and the situation is unexpected and unimagined for both, its is damaging!

so i think ,,at least In thinking ppl must be proactive rather than reactive.
n ALLAH na karey kisi k saath b aisa ho![DOUBLEPOST=1353924836][/DOUBLEPOST]
ALLAH tala aapko bohat happy future aur bohat si khushiyan naseeb farmayain AAMEEN!
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us uper wali ZAAT per bahrosa rakhna chaheya so me k khayal mai sub kuch set hojata hai...
chahy ap kisi ko like nai krty yakoi ap kisi ko...
so aesi situations mai b sabar sa kaam liya jana chaheya ...
guys sorry agar ap mai sa kisi ko meri batain bore ya to lecture feel huwin...
but yeh sub true hai...aik paal k liya soch kr zarur bataeya ga :)[DOUBLEPOST=1353924938][/DOUBLEPOST]thanks HOORAIN stay blessed :)
 

NXXXS

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us uper wali ZAAT per bahrosa rakhna chaheya so me k khayal mai sub kuch set hojata hai...
chahy ap kisi ko like nai krty yakoi ap kisi ko...
so aesi situations mai b sabar sa kaam liya jana chaheya ...
guys sorry agar ap mai sa kisi ko meri batain bore ya to lecture feel huwin...
but yeh sub true hai...aik paal k liya soch kr zarur bataeya ga :)[DOUBLEPOST=1353924938][/DOUBLEPOST]thanks HOORAIN stay blessed :)
feel tu hoyeen:D
 

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us uper wali ZAAT per bahrosa rakhna chaheya so me k khayal mai sub kuch set hojata hai...
chahy ap kisi ko like nai krty yakoi ap kisi ko...
so aesi situations mai b sabar sa kaam liya jana chaheya ...
guys sorry agar ap mai sa kisi ko meri batain bore ya to lecture feel huwin...
but yeh sub true hai...aik paal k liya soch kr zarur bataeya ga :)[DOUBLEPOST=1353924938][/DOUBLEPOST]thanks HOORAIN stay blessed :)
very true :)
 

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aam tor per yehi kaha jata hai ke shadi us se nhi karo jisko aap pasand karte ho balke shadi us se karo jo apko pasand karta ho lekin agar ghor kya jai yeh dono baaten barabar ka wazan rakhti hain

kyunke agar hum apni life uske sath guzarte hain jisko hum pasand nahi karte lekin woh hamen pasand karta hai to zahir hai woh hamari care hamara khayal b rakhta hai lekin return main hum usko kya dete hain?kuch b nahi kyunke hum usko like hi nhi krte

lekin hum agr apni life aise shaks ke sath guzarte hain jo hamen to pasnd nhi krta lekin hum usko boht pasand karte hain to zahir hai hum uska khayal b rakhte hain care b krte hain lekin return main woh hamen kya deta hai?kuch b nhi kyunke woh hamen like hi nhi krta

lekin hum agr yeh sochte hain ke life uske sath guzarni chahiye jo hamen like karta ho take uska dil na toote or waqt ke sath hum uski muhabbat ko recognized kr saken or phir return main usko bhi wohi muhabbat de saken jo muhabbat woh hamen deta hai ya jis muhabbat ka woh haqdar banta hai

to yehi baat phir is situation main b apply hoti hai jab hum apni life us shaks ke sath guzarte hain jo hamen pasand nahi karta balke hum usko pasand karte hain ab chonke hum usse pasand krte hain to zahir hai uske sath life guzarne per or uski care krne pr or us se muhabbat krne ki surat main return main uski tarf se muhabbat or woh care na milne pr dil hamara b toote ga or uske sath life guzarne ki surat main waqt ke sath woh bhi hamari muhabbat recognized kr sakta hai or phir return main woh b hamen woh muhabbat de sakta hai jitni muhabbat hum us se kr rhe hote hain ya jitni muhabbat ke hum haqdar hote hain

to meri nazr main life guzarne ke lye behtreen sathi woh hota hai jisko aap khud b boht pasnd krte ho or jo khud bhi apko boht pasand karta ho is tarha muamla b barabar rehta hai muhabbat ki transection b brabar rehti hai ek dusre ki care b barabar ki jati hai kisi ek ka dil b nhi tott'ta kisi ek ke dil main koi shikayat b nhi rehti or zindagi hansi khushi guzarti rehti hai
 
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walaikum assalam :)
accha sawal hai zindagi me is marhale se hame kayi baar guzarna parta hai.
chund saal pahle maine ek proverb parha tha k " mushkil waqt me jo tumhe yaad aaye/ jise tum yaad karte ho samjho k wo tumse pyar karta hai.aur jise tum apni khushi k waqt yaad karte ho to samjho k tum us se pyar karte ho "

aur mai yahi samajhta hon k agar koi tumhe pyar karta hai to uske saath zindagi guzarna aasan hota hai banisbat uske jise aap pyar karte ho.yahi haal Allah aur uski maqlooq ka hai.aap aazma kar dekhein kabhi k jab kabhi aapko koi saqt mushkil pesh aaye to fauran hame Allah aur isi tarha aapke apne qareebi rishte jaise mama/abbu yaad aate hain.aur jab kabhi aapko koi khuhsi haasil ho to aapko apne dost rishtedaar etc.yaad aajate hain.

shayed k aapko jawab mil gaya ho.aur bhi baat waazeh chahiye to main apni agli post me kardunga inshaAllah
 
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obviously kisi k saath happen nhi ho rha to assumption hi kahain gaye..
but Aise Question pooche jayain to At least aik baar insan zarur soochta hay k waqe hi agar ALLAH na akrey aisa ho(q k hota hay ye aksar) to Insan k liye kia ziada mushkil hota hoga,,,
Aise sawal already assume kiye gaye hon aur in k baare may socha jaaye to insan kaafi had tak mukhtalif situations ko handle kar paata hay q k usko wo utni shocking n depressing nhi lagti jitni baghair sochey happen ho jayain tab laggaingi!!
exactly![DOUBLEPOST=1353932334][/DOUBLEPOST]
us uper wali ZAAT per bahrosa rakhna chaheya so me k khayal mai sub kuch set hojata hai...
chahy ap kisi ko like nai krty yakoi ap kisi ko...
so aesi situations mai b sabar sa kaam liya jana chaheya ...
guys sorry agar ap mai sa kisi ko meri batain bore ya to lecture feel huwin...
but yeh sub true hai...aik paal k liya soch kr zarur bataeya ga :)[DOUBLEPOST=1353924938][/DOUBLEPOST]thanks HOORAIN stay blessed :)
that's a good reply aapke baate surely un log ko bore lagenge jenhe aise baate discuss kerna ek dum bekaar lagta hain @Ally hai na /:)
 
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