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Sabah

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how do we behave with aur parents





An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"

The Son replied "It is a crow".

After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"


The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, What is this?"

At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. " It's a crow, a crow".

A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?"

This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it,



the following words were written in the diary:-

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when

today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So..

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.
They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".

Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.

 

SHB_Bhaiya

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Parents zindagi mein Allah ka woh tuhfa hain keh ager is ki qadar nahi kero ge to yeh zindagi aap ki qadar nahi kare gi.... Allah hum sub ko taufeeq de ke apne maa baap ki khidmat karen aur un ke samne uf tuk na karen...Aaameeeen....

thanks for such a nice sharing...
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saviou

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Jazakallah khair sabah.........bohot hi umdah sharing ki hai apne
aap ki har post kabile tareef hoti hai aur haqeeqat k bohot hi kareeb hoti hai....aise hi hame mustafeed karte rahen aur Isalm bhi hame aisi taleemat deta hai k maa baap ko unke budhape me uff tak nahi kahen.....Jazakallah khair



Its request to all children......
plz do respect ur parents & luv thm.....
especially whn they r dependnt on u..........

Maa-Baap ki na-farmaani kabira-gunaahoan me shumar hoti hai....


plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.... .............

jst think of moment whn u were born & ur mom faced the pain while giving birth 2 u..........
 

Sabah

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Jazakallah khair sabah.........bohot hi umdah sharing ki hai apne
aap ki har post kabile tareef hoti hai aur haqeeqat k bohot hi kareeb hoti hai....aise hi hame mustafeed karte rahen aur Isalm bhi hame aisi taleemat deta hai k maa baap ko unke budhape me uff tak nahi kahen.....Jazakallah khair



Its request to all children......
plz do respect ur parents & luv thm.....
especially whn they r dependnt on u..........

Maa-Baap ki na-farmaani kabira-gunaahoan me shumar hoti hai....


plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.... .............

jst think of moment whn u were born & ur mom faced the pain while giving birth 2 u..........
Mashallah buhut he achi advice de hain aapne
may Allah (SWA) bless you and give us all the ability of
obeying Islamic regulations and traditions in every deiffrent fields..
(AMEEN)
 

saviou

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summa Aameen..........bohot bohot shukriya sabah


Mashallah buhut he achi advice de hain aapne
may Allah (SWA) bless you and give us all the ability of
obeying Islamic regulations and traditions in every deiffrent fields..
(AMEEN)
 

melody1000

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absolutely true , a very beautifully wriiten piece..unfortunately true of how we behave sometimes...thank you for sharing this..it serves as an eyeopener to all...to remember selfless love is what we should all strive for
 
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