Akhir Kiun??????must Read,,,,,

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

she have to many options ..
eidhi center ,alot of trusts ..etc aur agar wo educated hai to pir to wo kisi grils hostel mai reh kar khud ko paal sakti hai aur agar bachai ho sath mai to ghar waalai agar support na karai to kisi relative kai haa kuch waqt kai leyai panah lai ya kisi trust mai aur job karkai wo khud ghar bhi lai sakti hai jaha wo bacho kai sath ek kamyab life guzar sakti hai ..

sub se pehlai to reshtaa ..
achi tarah chaan been kar reshta kiya jaayai ...shaadi karna sunnat hai farz nahi ..
us cheez se behtar hai kai bhoj samjh kar janwaro ki tarah kisi ko sonp dai ..
laiken agar reshta ho bhi gaya aur susraal lalachi nekla ..magar agar humsafar laalchi aur nashaawar nekla ..pehali to bewi usai samjhayai usai raah e rast pai laayai ..but agar pir bhi larki ki ana, ezzat e nafs ko rondha jaayai to usi waqt bewi ko alag hona chaheyai na kai taizaab phainknai aur jalnai ka intezaar karai ..aur sub se bewaqufaana faisla "khudkushi" yani ye duniya bhi jahannum aur wo duniya bhi azaab !!

sister ye bht long long topic hai bht saarai pehloo is mai aaengai ..
bus asal problem "islam se doori " jub tak ye problem hal na ho kuch teek nahi hoga ..

well don sis bohat umda soch apki realy i like it...


sab se bari masail ki jarh he rishte k intakhab hai,,,ab masla ye hai k jin walden ki betiyan 25 cros kar deti hain to unhe lagta hai k ab inka koi rishta nai ane wala..or sach b kisi had tak yehi hota hai,,larke walon ko hamesha apne 40 sala larke k liye 15 sal ki bachi typ bahow chiye hoti hai,,to 25 ya 25 se croos karne wali larkiyon k liye masail ka aggaz....walen aese mai jo b rishta ata hai usi ko ok kar dete hain,,,,q k agar wo aesa nai karen ge to pata nai age koi rishta ae b ya nai,,,,


apki bat 100% sach hai k sab masail ki jar Islam se dori hai

 

[zaryaab]

DEAR ...

BOLNE MAI OR KARNE MAI FARQ HOTA HAI,,
jis pe guzar rahi hoti hai use pata hota hai,,,,or talaq halal zaror hai lekin Allah ka shadeed na pasand halal kam hai ye,,,or jis socty mai hum reh rahe hain yahan talaq ko dagh he samja jata hai,,,yahan to to 15 din shohar se naraz hone wali beti ko nai bhitha pata ghar to talaq yaffta ki to zindagi azab kar dete hain,,


ap apni jaga thek ho,,,orat itni b kamzor nai,,90%khawaten pe ye halat guzar rahe hain,,,

aur khudkushi se ALLAH khush hota hai ??
jub kisi bandai par zameen tang ki jaati hai to ALLAH ne hijrat ka hukam bhi diya hai ..
ALLAH bhala kardai in jaisai behno ki aur logo mai shaoor jaga dai

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

aur khudkushi se ALLAH khush hota hai ??
jub kisi bandai par zameen tang ki jaati hai to ALLAH ne hijrat ka hukam bhi diya hai ..
ALLAH bhala kardai in jaisai behno ki aur logo mai shaoor jaga dai

ameennn,,


khudkushi banda tab karta hai jab use kuch sam nai araha hota,,,,han lekin nai karni chiye

 

[zaryaab]

well don sis bohat umda soch apki realy i like it...


sab se bari masail ki jarh he rishte k intakhab hai,,,ab masla ye hai k jin walden ki betiyan 25 cros kar deti hain to unhe lagta hai k ab inka koi rishta nai ane wala..or sach b kisi had tak yehi hota hai,,larke walon ko hamesha apne 40 sala larke k liye 15 sal ki bachi typ bahow chiye hoti hai,,to 25 ya 25 se croos karne wali larkiyon k liye masail ka aggaz....walen aese mai jo b rishta ata hai usi ko ok kar dete hain,,,,q k agar wo aesa nai karen ge to pata nai age koi rishta ae b ya nai,,,,


apki bat 100% sach hai k sab masail ki jar Islam se dori hai

yahi to mai keh raha hun 25 cross kar jaayai to kiya wo larki dependent ban jaati hai ..wo kisi mard kai sahaarai kai baghair aagai nahi jaa sakti ..unho ne apnai umeedo ka mehwar mard he ko Q chuna hai ..un ka sahaara sirf ALLAH hai ..aur wohi kaar saaz hai ..jis din wo ALLAH pai pukhta yaqeen rakhai ge us waqt jagrai khatam ..ye mard sirf ALLAH ki di huwi nemato mai se ek zarya hai aurat ka us ka jehaan e kul nahi ..Allah mard ki jaga koe aur zarya bana sakta hai ..

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

yahi to mai keh raha hun 25 cross kar jaayai to kiya wo larki dependent ban jaati hai ..wo kisi mard kai sahaarai kai baghair aagai nahi jaa sakti ..unho ne apnai umeedo ka mehwar mard he ko Q chuna hai ..un ka sahaara sirf ALLAH hai ..aur wohi kaar saaz hai ..jis din wo ALLAH pai pukhta yaqeen rakhai ge us waqt jagrai khatam ..ye mard sirf ALLAH ki di huwi nemato mai se ek zarya hai aurat ka us ka jehaan e kul nahi ..Allah mard ki jaga koe aur zarya bana sakta hai ..

lekin dear ye jo hamara mashra hai na yahan aek mard k bagair hum survive b nai kar skte,...hame aek bhai pab bete ya shohar ki zarorat parti he hai,,,orat jitni b khudmukhtar q na ho jae lekin aek mard ka sahara lazmi chiye hota hai

 

[zaryaab]

ameennn,,


khudkushi banda tab karta hai jab use kuch sam nai araha hota,,,,han lekin nai karni chiye

yahi to kharai imtehaan hotai hai jis mai ALLAH apnai bandai ko aazmaata hai .khari khari aazmaaesho se apnai bandai ko azmmata hai aur jub wo is imtehaan mai kamyaab hojata hai to ALLAH usain na khatam honai waalai nemato se nawaazta hai ..

 

[zaryaab]

lekin dear ye jo hamara mashra hai na yahan aek mard k bagair hum survive b nai kar skte,...hame aek bhai pab bete ya shohar ki zarorat parti he hai,,,orat jitni b khudmukhtar q na ho jae lekin aek mard ka sahara lazmi chiye hota hai

mard ko mard bhi to hona chaheyai na ..aisa baighairat bhai aur baap kai hotai huwai ek larki zalim shohar ki waja se khudkushi karlai ..lanat ho aisai saharai aur mardaange pai ..mard ka kaam tahaffuz daina hota hai ..bai aabro karna nahi ..

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

mard ko mard bhi to hona chaheyai na ..aisa baighairat bhai aur baap kai hotai huwai ek larki zalim shohar ki waja se khudkushi karlai ..lanat ho aisai saharai aur mardaange pai ..mard ka kaam tahaffuz daina hota hai ..bai aabro karna nahi ..

bat to sach hai,,,,

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

yahi to kharai imtehaan hotai hai jis mai ALLAH apnai bandai ko aazmaata hai .khari khari aazmaaesho se apnai bandai ko azmmata hai aur jub wo is imtehaan mai kamyaab hojata hai to ALLAH usain na khatam honai waalai nemato se nawaazta hai ..

yar baten to tum bohat achi karti ho,,,,,,,valid points

 

[zaryaab]

yar baten to tum bohat achi karti ho,,,,,,,valid points

m broda not sistha

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

m broda not sistha

o tariiiii,,,,,,muje laga larki ho...........sorry han,,,

 

[zaryaab]

o tariiiii,,,,,,muje laga larki ho...........sorry han,,,

mention nt !

 

[zaryaab]

laiken agli baar kuch lekhna ho to us mai aurat ko strong dekhaaya karo buzdil laa chaar nahi @Umeed_Ki_Kiran

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

laiken agli baar kuch lekhna ho to us mai aurat ko strong dekhaaya karo buzdil laa chaar nahi @Umeed_Ki_Kiran

han thek kaha apne,,but mai zada tar sach likhti hun,,,or orat bohat kamzor hai,,ye sach hai,,,,,,,,

 

[zaryaab]

han thek kaha apne,,but mai zada tar sach likhti hun,,,or orat bohat kamzor hai,,ye sach hai,,,,,,,,

faaeda ?? kuch aisa lekho jis se larkiyaa sabaq lai ..kamzoriya aur buraeyya discuss karnaai se bharti hai kam nahi hoti ..thos qadam uthaao ..larkiyo mai shaoor jagaao ..unhai maboot banaao ..nakai dramao ki tarah kamzor baibas aur laachaar ..."zindage gulzar hai " ki kashaf aur us ki maa kai roles saamnai laao na kai fazool 3rd class nazim abaad dramo ki ekaasi karlo ..

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

faaeda ?? kuch aisa lekho jis se larkiyaa sabaq lai ..kamzoriya aur buraeyya discuss karnaai se bharti hai kam nahi hoti ..thos qadam uthaao ..larkiyo mai shaoor jagaao ..unhai maboot banaao ..nakai dramao ki tarah kamzor baibas aur laachaar ..."zindage gulzar hai " ki kashaf aur us ki maa kai roles saamnai laao na kai fazool 3rd class nazim abaad dramo ki ekaasi karlo ..

inShaAllah ab kuch aesa he likhon gi,,,,,

 

[zaryaab]

inShaAllah ab kuch aesa he likhon gi,,,,,

wish u best ov luc

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

wish u best ov luc

zayab apki age kia hai???if u dont mind?

 

[zaryaab]

zayab apki age kia hai???if u dont mind?

i knw kai aap ye sawal pooche ge . . kai itni omar mai ,mai istarh ki baatein kaisai karta hun .. 21 abi shuru hai ..
..bachpan se research aur islam mai khaas dilchascpi rakhta hun .. aur aisi cases kaye baar samnai aaye hai ..

 

[Umeed_Ki_Kiran]

i knw kai aap ye sawal pooche ge . . kai itni omar mai ,mai istarh ki baatein kaisai karta hun .. 21 abi shuru hai ..
..bachpan se research aur islam mai khaas dilchascpi rakhta hun .. aur aisi cases kaye baar samnai aaye hai ..

hmmmm acha,,,chalo jawab b sath he likh dia