well don sis bohat umda soch apki realy i like it...she have to many options ..
eidhi center ,alot of trusts ..etc aur agar wo educated hai to pir to wo kisi grils hostel mai reh kar khud ko paal sakti hai aur agar bachai ho sath mai to ghar waalai agar support na karai to kisi relative kai haa kuch waqt kai leyai panah lai ya kisi trust mai aur job karkai wo khud ghar bhi lai sakti hai jaha wo bacho kai sath ek kamyab life guzar sakti hai ..
sub se pehlai to reshtaa ..
achi tarah chaan been kar reshta kiya jaayai ...shaadi karna sunnat hai farz nahi ..
us cheez se behtar hai kai bhoj samjh kar janwaro ki tarah kisi ko sonp dai ..
laiken agar reshta ho bhi gaya aur susraal lalachi nekla ..magar agar humsafar laalchi aur nashaawar nekla ..pehali to bewi usai samjhayai usai raah e rast pai laayai ..but agar pir bhi larki ki ana, ezzat e nafs ko rondha jaayai to usi waqt bewi ko alag hona chaheyai na kai taizaab phainknai aur jalnai ka intezaar karai ..aur sub se bewaqufaana faisla "khudkushi" yani ye duniya bhi jahannum aur wo duniya bhi azaab !!
sister ye bht long long topic hai bht saarai pehloo is mai aaengai ..
bus asal problem "islam se doori " jub tak ye problem hal na ho kuch teek nahi hoga ..
sab se bari masail ki jarh he rishte k intakhab hai,,,ab masla ye hai k jin walden ki betiyan 25 cros kar deti hain to unhe lagta hai k ab inka koi rishta nai ane wala..or sach b kisi had tak yehi hota hai,,larke walon ko hamesha apne 40 sala larke k liye 15 sal ki bachi typ bahow chiye hoti hai,,to 25 ya 25 se croos karne wali larkiyon k liye masail ka aggaz....walen aese mai jo b rishta ata hai usi ko ok kar dete hain,,,,q k agar wo aesa nai karen ge to pata nai age koi rishta ae b ya nai,,,,
apki bat 100% sach hai k sab masail ki jar Islam se dori hai