Prince_farry&hoorain (3rd Round)

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Nelly

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Dedication ROund
Assalam o ALaikum
Ok so farry n Hoor sis ke saath pehle 2 roundz bohat mazay ke guzray and we hope k in dono ne bhi bohat enjoi kiya hoga :) Now final Round Dedication round hai jis main dono frnds ko ek doosray ko kuch na kuch dedicate karna hai....
dedication k liye aap khud se kuch create/prepare karen tou ziyada better hai :)
Aap jo b bnayain us pe APna ,Apne friend ka aur TM ka naam likhna mat bhuliyega
aapke pass 2 din hain is roud ke liye
Gud Luck :)
 

Prince-Farry

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wa'alaikumusalaam wrwb...
ahan dedication...
pehle ap dedicate karoogi..mai nahi...mujhe thora waqt lagega.... :s...aj poora din job mei nikal gaya..aur kal bhi jaega :s
 

Hoorain

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A n3st!
wa'alaikumusalaam wrwb...
ahan dedication...
pehle ap dedicate karoogi..mai nahi...mujhe thora waqt lagega.... :s...aj poora din job mei nikal gaya..aur kal bhi jaega :s
kisi kaam may to active hua karain/:)
pehley aap dedicate karo gaye bas final [-(
 

Prince-Farry

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Well it's a book, one of my closest shared with me so thought of sharing to @hoorain sis.
And others can take advantage as well :)
Below is the table content & Attached is the full version of book
Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION ........................................................................................................................................................8​
ABOUT THE AUTHOR ............................................................................................................................................. 10​
PILLARS OF RELATIONSHIPS .................................................................................................................................. 11​
CHAPTER 1 ........................................................................................................................................................ 12​
Relationship with the Self ..................................................................................................................................... 12​
Beware of minor and major sins ........................................................................................................................... 12​
Beware of the fitnah (temptation) of wealth ........................................................................................................ 12​
Choosing righteous companions ........................................................................................................................... 13​
Temptation to show off ......................................................................................................................................... 13​
Control your anger ................................................................................................................................................ 13​
Humble yourself .................................................................................................................................................... 14​
Watch out for Hasad (Envy) .................................................................................................................................. 14​
Be Generous .......................................................................................................................................................... 15​
CHAPTER 2 ........................................................................................................................................................ 16​
Relationship with Allah.......................................................................................................................................... 16​
Offer five obligatory prayers promptly ................................................................................................................. 16​
Pray 12 Sunnah prayers ......................................................................................................................................... 17​
Pray tahajjud prayer .............................................................................................................................................. 17​
Make dhikr constantly ........................................................................................................................................... 17​
Seek forgiveness 100 times a day ......................................................................................................................... 18​
Thank Allah ............................................................................................................................................................ 19​
Make dua ............................................................................................................................................................... 20​
Tell Allah that you love Him .................................................................................................................................. 20​
Enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil............................................................................................... 21​
Give charity for the sake of Allah .......................................................................................................................... 21​
Place Your Need before Allah, Not Men ............................................................................................................... 22​
CHAPTER 3 ........................................................................................................................................................ 23​
Relationship with Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu alaihe wasallam ..................................................................... 23​
Follow the authentic Sunnah and stay away from bidah ...................................................................................... 23​
Obey him ............................................................................................................................................................... 24​
Send salawat and Salam upon him especially on Fridays. This will increase our blessings from Allah ................ 24​
Make dua for him .................................................................................................................................................. 24​
Love him more than you love yourself, your family, and your wealth ................................................................. 25​
Show respect for the Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and for his Sunnah ..................................................... 25​
Defend our Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and promote his good name ..................................................... 25​
Read the biography of Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam from authentic sources and benefit from the many lessons that they contain ...................................................................................................................................... 25​
Learn the Sunnah by studying its sources. We must study the hadith and strive to understand them correctly 26​
Follow the Sunnah in its entirety, giving priority to what we are obliged to do .................................................. 26​
Dislike the actions of those who defame the Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam or disapprove of his Sunnah . 26​
CHAPTER 4 ........................................................................................................................................................ 28​
Relationship with the Qur’an ................................................................................................................................ 28​
Learn to read Qur’an with tajweed ....................................................................................................................... 29​
Recite the Quran every day ................................................................................................................................... 29​
Read the Quran’s translation and explanations and ponder upon it .................................................................... 30​
Act upon the Quran’s teachings ............................................................................................................................ 30​
Teach others .......................................................................................................................................................... 30​
CHAPTER 5 ........................................................................................................................................................ 32​
Relationship with the Wealth ................................................................................................................................ 32​
Seek forgiveness for increase in wealth ................................................................................................................ 33​
Give sadaqah whilst you are in good health ......................................................................................................... 33​
Spend on your husband if he is in need ................................................................................................................ 34​
Allah is Good and accepts nothing but that which is good ................................................................................... 34​
Ongoing Charity ..................................................................................................................................................... 34​
Charity from your husband’s wealth ..................................................................................................................... 35​
Use kind words if you don’t have money to help others ...................................................................................... 35​
Do not follow up your spending with reminders .................................................................................................. 36​
Giving charity increase the wealth ........................................................................................................................ 36​
Do not take anything from your husband’s wealth without his permission......................................................... 37​
Spend on your parents if they are poor and your are rich .................................................................................... 37​
Being dutiful includes spending on them if they are in need ............................................................................... 38​
Relationship with the World Around You ............................................................................................................. 39​
CHAPTER 6 ........................................................................................................................................................ 41​
Relationship with the Parents ............................................................................................................................... 41​
Call them often if they live far away or visit them if they live close by ................................................................ 42​
Take care of their needs ........................................................................................................................................ 42​
Be gentle with them .............................................................................................................................................. 42​
Be patient over things which you may dislike ....................................................................................................... 42​
CHAPTER 7 ........................................................................................................................................................ 44​
Relationship with the Husband ............................................................................................................................. 44​
Be thankful to him ................................................................................................................................................. 44​
Support him in his decisions. Don’t go against his decisions, if you dislike something, talk to him gently when his is in a good mood and give him reasons for your opinion .............................................................................. 45​
Take care of him .................................................................................................................................................... 45​
Don’t complain about his shortfalls to his family or to your family members ..................................................... 45​
Don’t argue with him when he is angry ................................................................................................................ 46​
Be sensible what you spend from his earnings ..................................................................................................... 46​
Don’t ask him for more than he can afford ........................................................................................................... 46​
Don’t complain to him about his parents or his family ......................................................................................... 47​
Don’t say no when he wants to intimate with you unless you’ve a reason to say so. ......................................... 47​
CHAPTER 8 ........................................................................................................................................................ 48​
Relationship with the Children .............................................................................................................................. 48​
Teach them about Islam ........................................................................................................................................ 48​
Teach them to pray ............................................................................................................................................... 48​
Instil the love of Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and teach them to read Qur’an with tajweed ................... 49​
Give them an Islamic environment ....................................................................................................................... 49​
Teach them to take care of needy ........................................................................................................................ 49​
Dress them according to Islamic ruling ................................................................................................................. 50​
Develop the love for Allah and Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam in their hearts ............................................. 50​
Teach them to thank Allah for the blessings ......................................................................................................... 51​
Love them, hug them, and kiss them frequently .................................................................................................. 51​
Treat all your children equally ............................................................................................................................... 51​
Reward them for their good actions and appreciate them .................................................................................. 51​
Teach them to select good friends for themselves ............................................................................................... 52​
CHAPTER 9 ........................................................................................................................................................ 53​
Relationship with Relatives ................................................................................................................................... 53​
Be kind to them and treat them respectfully ........................................................................................................ 53​
Don’t compete with them ..................................................................................................................................... 53​
Stay away from conflicts ....................................................................................................................................... 54​
Always stand by their side when they are in need ............................................................................................... 54​
Visit them often and call them over to your house and give them gifts .............................................................. 54​
If you get in fight with them be the first one to give them salaam and don’t cut off your relationship for more than three days ..................................................................................................................................................... 55​
CONCLUSION ......................................................................................................................................................... 56​
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Can anyone please tag everyone. JazakaAllah khair
 

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