What Is More Difficult??

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Sabah

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Asalam-o-alaikum Wrwb!
I mostly finish my day, spending sometime alone in roof with the ultimate shades of sunset
and at the time many questions, many puzzles come across my mind regarding to different issue's wether it's about my own life or others they make me to think for a while.
So the same this question came in my mind when I was actually thinking about something.
very simple question Iam here to ask, yet the answer is not that simple.
I spent half an hour to figure out but I couldn't, now let me see what other explains, what is more difficult:

spending a life with the one who doesnt love or like you?
or
spending your life with the one, whom you dont love or like?

dont only vote but give a proper answer too. :)
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SHB_Bhaiya

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spending your life with the one whom you dont love or like? :-?

I think but never face these type of situation so simply no idea about it...
 

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Asalam-o-alaikum Wrwb!
I mostly finish my day, spending sometime alone in roof with the ultimate shades of sunset
and at the time many questions, many puzzles come across my mind regarding to different issue's wether it's about my own life or others they make me to think for a while.
So the same this question came in my mind when I was actually thinking about something.
very simple question Iam here to ask, yet the answer is not that simple.
I spent half an hour to figure out but I couldn't, now let me see what other explains, what is more difficult:

spending a life with the one who doesnt love or like you?
or
spending your life with the one, whom you dont love or like?

dont only vote but give a proper answer too. :)
Regards!

@hoorain @*SHOAIB* @Nelly @Fahadd @Ally @*Muslim* @Aara'af @Atif-adi @Bela @S_ChiragH
X_X
 

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spending your life with the one whom you dont love or like? :-?

I think but never face these type of situation so simply no idea about it...
aur jho aapko passand nai kerta kia uske saath zindagi kerna aapko esse asan lagta hain?
it's not a matter of one person, it can be group of people too, it can be a whole family or a place you work in, means kabhi aap kessi aisa jagah kaam kerte hain jaha k staff aapko belkul bhi passand nai kerta like just boss ne aapko choose kiya hua kaam k lie so aapke jho co-workers hain voh aapko like nai kerte and they are always in struggle to find flaws on you and to prove you the wrong employee infront of the employer so yeh mushkil hain ya yeh k aap aapnay boss ko belkul like nai kerte but still to earn money you are compel to work with him so kaunsa zyada mushkil hain for you, I hope yeh perception samajh gaye honge aap
aapko samjhate samjhate mai khud nai samajh rahe k what am I talking about 8-|
 

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aur jho aapko passand nai kerta kia uske saath zindagi kerna aapko esse asan lagta hain?
it's not a matter of one person, it can be group of people too, it can be a whole family or a place you work in, means kabhi aap kessi aisa jagah kaam kerte hain jaha k staff aapko belkul bhi passand nai kerta like just boss ne aapko choose kiya hua kaam k lie so aapke jho co-workers hain voh aapko like nai kerte and they are always in struggle to find flaws on you and to prove you the wrong employee infront the employer so yeh mushkil hain ya yeh k aap aapnay boss ko belkul like nai kerte but still to earn money you are compel to work with him so kaunsa zyada mushkil hain for you, I hope yeh perception samajh gaye honge aap
aapko samjhate samjhate mai khud nai samajh rahe k what am I talking about 8-|
hain dee kya bol ree ho ;;)
 

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walaikum salam
spending a life with the one who doesnt love or like you? ye bht difficult hy
aur jo apne ko pasand karta ho lekin apan pasand ny karte ye itna muskil nahi
 
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Asalam-o-alaikum Wrwb!
I mostly finish my day, spending sometime alone in roof with the ultimate shades of sunset
and at the time many questions, many puzzles come across my mind regarding to different issue's wether it's about my own life or others they make me to think for a while.
So the same this question came in my mind when I was actually thinking about something.
very simple question Iam here to ask, yet the answer is not that simple.
I spent half an hour to figure out but I couldn't, now let me see what other explains, what is more difficult:

spending a life with the one who doesnt love or like you?
or
spending your life with the one, whom you dont love or like?

dont only vote but give a proper answer too. :)
Regards!

@hoorain @*SHOAIB* @Nelly @Fahadd @Ally @*Muslim* @Aara'af @Atif-adi @Bela @S_ChiragH
waalaikum assalam WRWB
aise kuch bhi kehna mushkil hota hay,,
but i think spending ur life with a person who don't like us is really torturing,hmari shakhsiyat khatam ho jaati hay,insan inferiority complex ka shikar ho jata hay it is really depressing,bohat zarf aur compromising nature chahiye us k liye which is really very rare.

On the other hand spending life with a person whom we dont like is also not easy but it is much better than the first option q k hum like nhi kar rhe ya hamari nature se us person ki nature match nhi ho rhi magar wo person hmari qadar karain ,respect dain to FOr sure aik time may sab manage ho jata hay but again is k liye bhi compromising and mature hona chahiye insan ko!
according to me 2nd option is easy! {(popcorn)}
 

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I think jis ko hum pasand kertey hain us ke sath time acha guzarta chahey woh pasand naa bhi kerta hon per woh hamari pasand hai to us ko pasand kerne ki jo wajah hai woh he uss se jorey rakhey gi humey... aur jis ko hum pasand nahi kertey to us ko pasand naa kerney ki bhi koi wajah ho gi iss lea woh wajah humey laakh chahtey hoye bhi us ke aur mere dermiyan fasley qaim rakhe gi to iss rishtey mai just majboori he joorey rakhey gi....

so simple solution yeah hai keh ager hum kisi ko pasand kertey hain to us ke lea thori qurbani dena seekhen aur ager us ke lea khud ko change nahi ker saktey to iss ka matlab hum us ko utna pasand nahi kertey ke uss ko chorh naa saken....

hopefully aap ko answer mil gaya ho ga.... ager mil jaye to mujhe bhi bata dena mai ne kya samjhaya :-?[DOUBLEPOST=1353923332][/DOUBLEPOST]
aapko just example k through samjha rahe the mere urdu kia itne mushkil hain jho aapko samajh nai aye /:)
hahaha nahi samajh aa gaya mai to just leg pulling ker raha thaa...{}{456
 
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waalaikum assalam WRWB
aise kuch bhi kehna mushkil hota hay,,
but i think spending ur life with a person who don't like us is really torturing,hmari shakhsiyat khatam ho jaati hay,insan inferiority complex ka shikar ho jata hay it is really depressing,bohat zarf aur compromising nature chahiye us k liye which is really very rare.

At the same time spending life with a person whom we dont like is also not easy but it is much better than the first option q k hum like nhi kar rhe ya hamari nature se us person ki nature match nhi ho rhi magar wo person hmari qadar karain ,respect dain to FOr sure aik time may sab manage ho jata hay but again is k liye bhi compromising and mature hona chahiye insan ko!
according to me 2nd option is easy! {(popcorn)}
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walaikum salam
spending a life with the one who doesnt love or like you? ye bht difficult hy
aur jo apne ko pasand karta ho lekin apan pasand ny karte ye itna muskil nahi
yeh mujhay bhi laga but koi proper wajah hai aapke paas es option ka?
jessay aap passand nai kerte unke saath zindagi guzarna asan ba nesbat jho aapko passand nai kerta.
 
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yeh mujhay bhi laga but koi proper wajah hai aapke paas es option ka?
jessay aap passand nai kerte unke saath zindagi guzarna asan ba nesbat jho aapko passand nai kerta.
my itna acha samja to ny sakta koshish karta hun

jo apko pasand ny karta ya karti uske sath to shuru se dil nahi karega baat karne ko zindagi guzarna to door ki bat hy but jo apko pasand karta ya karti ho lekin aap usko ny karte to iske sath to baat bi ho sakti hy aur zindagi b guzari ja sakti hy kam se kam aage wale se nuqsan ka andesha to ny hoga

aise my sochta hun :rolleyes:
 
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kheriyat bhaanjey :-?
yeh sabah ji kia har waqt yehi sochti rehti hein k kaisey mushkil mushkil Q create kerny hein...............unqareeb yeh khud b pagal ho jayen ...aur inshaAllah adha TM b pagal ho jay g a :eek:
 

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waalaikum assalam WRWB
aise kuch bhi kehna mushkil hota hay,,
but i think spending ur life with a person who don't like us is really torturing,hmari shakhsiyat khatam ho jaati hay,insan inferiority complex ka shikar ho jata hay it is really depressing,bohat zarf aur compromising nature chahiye us k liye which is really very rare.

At the same time spending life with a person whom we dont like is also not easy but it is much better than the first option q k hum like nhi kar rhe ya hamari nature se us person ki nature match nhi ho rhi magar wo person hmari qadar karain ,respect dain to FOr sure aik time may sab manage ho jata hay but again is k liye bhi compromising and mature hona chahiye insan ko!
according to me 2nd option is easy! {(popcorn)}
well replied Hoorain that's what I was looking for, jho reasons apnay de hain they are truly rare but haa ager yeh reasons happen hujae then there will be no conflict I think. mutual understading na ho pir bhi one side se koi acha clue ho banda pir bhi adjust kerna seekhta hain.
thumbs up :)
 
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yeh sabah ji kia har waqt yehi sochti rehti hein k kaisey mushkil mushkil Q create kerny hein...............unqareeb yeh khud b pagal ho jayen ...aur inshaAllah adha TM b pagal ho jay g a :eek:
par aap q fikar karing
aap to already ahem ahem :p
samajh to aap gaye hi hon gaye ;))[DOUBLEPOST=1353923757][/DOUBLEPOST]
well replied Hoorain that's what I was looking for, jho reasons apnay de hain they are truly rare but haa ager yeh reasons happen hujae then there will be no conflict I think. mutual understading na ho pir bhi one side se koi acha clue ho banda pir bhi adjust kerna seekhta hain.
thumbs up :)
true!
n thank you :)
 

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my itna acha samja to ny sakta koshish karta hun

jo apko pasand ny karta ya karti uske sath to shuru se dil nahi karega baat karne ko zindagi guzarna to door ki bat hy but jo apko pasand karta ya karti ho lekin aap usko ny karte to iske sath to baat bi ho sakti hy aur zindagi b guzari ja sakti hy kam se kam aage wale se nuqsan ka andesha to ny hoga

aise my sochta hun :rolleyes:
Hmmmm yeh bhi sahi baat hain, I think yahi option banesbat pahlay se behter hain. good one :)
 
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par aap q fikar karing
aap to already ahem ahem :p
samajh to aap gaye hi hon gaye ;))[DOUBLEPOST=1353923757][/DOUBLEPOST]
true!
n thank you :)
compliment ka shukryia [-(


wesy yeh sab assumption pe based hai ....................so all r hypothecations............nuthing is final...
 

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yeh sabah ji kia har waqt yehi sochti rehti hein k kaisey mushkil mushkil Q create kerny hein...............unqareeb yeh khud b pagal ho jayen ...aur inshaAllah adha TM b pagal ho jay g a :eek:
serf entertainment and rumor sub kuch nai hota Ally, /:) buhut se lives mei yeh circumistance chal rahe hote hain discuss kerne se mazeed ek appreciation melti hain ya way of relief, per khair mai ne aapko tag he kio kiya aapko samajh aker bhi baat samajh nai ayegi.
 
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