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sabeha

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love marriages ki baat nahi kar raha mai...pasand karne ki baat kar raha hoon
and naturally..parents khush hote hein apne bachoo ki pasand par ...
yeh mai pehli bar sun raha hon ke beta ki mohabbat share hone ja rahi ahi...
Yr zayada tar mothers ko pasand ni hota k un k betae pasnd ki shadi kren ,yeh fareena thek bol ri hain
 

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apke bht contacts hein auntiess ke saath...isi liye aunties ki soch bata sakti hein ../:)
kia pata half sach hoo..but dun think aik maa pyaar bant jaane ki soch rakhti ho
umm actually wo agar aisa karain b to intentionally nhi kartin,,magar kaafi cases may aise hota hay,,specially ghar may jo sab se barra baita ho us k mamley may mothers bohat touchy hoti hain to aksar aisa masla ho jata hy,,,,unhe thori problem hoti hay shuroo may share karne may....
 

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umm actually wo agar aisa karain b to intentionally nhi kartin,,magar kaafi cases may aise hota hay,,specially ghar may jo sab se barra baita ho us k mamley may mothers bohat touchy hoti hain to aksar aisa masla ho jata hy,,,,unhe thori problem hoti hay shuroo may share karne may....
umm keh sakte hein..but yeh case sirf pasand ki shadi mei nahi hota...har kisam ki shadi mei hosakta hai...
 

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umm keh sakte hein..but yeh case sirf pasand ki shadi mei nahi hota...har kisam ki shadi mei hosakta hai...
true,,thora difference ye hay k jo arrange marriage hoti hay us may shuroo may itna b masla nhi hota cauz larki ki ghar waalon k saath kafi banti hay kio k pehle se jaante hain sab,,,,aur gahr waale b usse kaafi pasand karte hain baad may ye masla hota hay
pasand waghaira ki shadi may shuroo may ye masla zaida hota hay baad may adjust ho hi jata hay!
lakin hota dono cases may hay!
 

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true,,thora difference ye hay k jo arrange marriage hoti hay us may shuroo may itna b masla nhi hota cauz larki ki ghar waalon k saath kafi banti hay kio k pehle se jaante hain sab,,,,aur gahr waale b usse kaafi pasand karte hain baad may ye masla hota hay
pasand waghaira ki shadi may shuroo may ye masla zaida hota hay baad may adjust ho hi jata hay!
lakin hota dono cases may hay!
agar arrange marriage bahar ho rahi hoo..pher to its same as other marraige..
ap to dono case mei kisi ke ghar walo ko nahi jhan sakte...
but yes..i agree ke mother aisi nature rakhti hai pyaar ke related....but mother ki aisi nature har giz nahi hoti ke woh shadi hi na karne de...
 

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agar arrange marriage bahar ho rahi hoo..pher to its same as other marraige..
ap to dono case mei kisi ke ghar walo ko nahi jhan sakte...
but yes..i agree ke mother aisi nature rakhti hai pyaar ke related....but mother ki aisi nature har giz nahi hoti ke woh shadi hi na karne de...
umm umm i dont know,,
i think 50 % hota hay 50% nhi hota!
dono nature ki momsss hoti hain...
 

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dono nature har mom may nhi hoti,,balkey dono nature ki moms hoti hain ye kaha:p
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u r ri8,,is may koi do raye nhi mothers are best! :)
i think dono nature hi har mom mei hoti hai.....bacho ki khushi ke lie kuch bhi karna...aur unka sensitive hona...

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itni discussion:eek:@Prince-Farry mera u ki taraf har giz matlab nae tha sachi :Daur ye bas eik jock hai esa hota hai buhat bar k maa apne bety k lye apni passand ki lana chahti hai lkn agr beta apni passand se lana chahy tu zehir hi lagy gi tv serial nae dekhty na is lye {(moc)}
 

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mothers jis bahu ko bht pyar se dulhan bana k lati hain apni psand se us se b unhain ye hi shikayat ho jati hai bad ma k mere bete ko chura lia mujh se is ma qasoor saas bahu dono ka ho sakta hai but asil role woh larka hi ada kar sakta hai dono ma insaf kar k phr ksi ko shikayat nhi ho sakti lekin larke itne samjhdar kahn hote hain ;)
 

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mothers jis bahu ko bht pyar se dulhan bana k lati hain apni psand se us se b unhain ye hi shikayat ho jati hai bad ma k mere bete ko chura lia mujh se is ma qasoor saas bahu dono ka ho sakta hai but asil role woh larka hi ada kar sakta hai dono ma insaf kar k phr ksi ko shikayat nhi ho sakti lekin larke itne samjhdar kahn hote hain ;)
haha true;))
main to waise b samajhti hun aur koi subject parha ho ya na ho,,psychology subject zzarur parha hona chahiye ,,rishton ko bahaal rakhne may barri asani hoti hay:p
 

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itni discussion:eek:@Prince-Farry mera u ki taraf har giz matlab nae tha sachi :Daur ye bas eik jock hai esa hota hai buhat bar k maa apne bety k lye apni passand ki lana chahti hai lkn agr beta apni passand se lana chahy tu zahir hi lagy gi tv serial nae dekhty na is lye {(moc)}
maine kab yeh thread apni taraf lei liya...and i know it was a joke..woh to baat fareena ne shuru ki....aur woh reply joke nahi tha..isi liye discussion aagay barh gae hai..
ofcourse parents khud pasand karte hein..mai is par nahi keh raha kuch bhi....its their right..
 

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haha true;))
main to waise b samajhti hun aur koi subject parha ho ya na ho,,psychology subject zzarur parha hona chahiye ,,rishton ko bahaal rakhne may barri asani hoti hay:p
nhi yar bas thora sa sabr thora sa darguzar bardasht ho aur baron k repect to ap bht achi tarha se rishte nibha sakte ho bas koi umeed na rakahin ksi se khud acha karne k try karain
 
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